Jon says thing to be encouraging that often come off as something less noble.

Yesterday we worked on painting my bike, which required hanging it on a rope for easy access to paint and dry. I spent the day painting but moved the bike upside down so I could get at some different angles.

When Jon saw the bike he said, "Did you move the bike?"
- Yes
- Wow. Good job. Good for you.

He also once said to me "It's not your fault that no one taught you how to run fast. Or throw things."

It's too bad I'm already married to Jon because I think this guy and I could have had something special.

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